Low Pressure First Date·Midtown·$$ · Moderate·⭐ 7.8

Apres Diem

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Midtown's most comfortable third place — wine, espresso, and zero pressure to leave

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What DatingDex says

Apres Diem is that rare venue that works at 2pm or 10pm — a wine bar-café hybrid where the lighting does you favors and the menu doesn't demand a decision you'll regret. The indoor-outdoor setup on Monroe means you can read the date's energy and adjust accordingly.

Apres Diem is one of the top low pressure first date spots in Midtown. At a moderate price point, it fits well when you want a low pressure first date feel without guesswork.

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