First Date·Lower East Side·$$ · Moderate·⭐ 7.4

Lai Rai

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Vietnamese drinking food and no-BS vibes on the edge of LES.

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What DatingDex says

Lai Rai is the kind of bar that earns its 4.8 without trying — snacky Vietnamese bites, well-made drinks, and a room that's lively without being loud enough to make you lean in and fake-laugh. Go for the chả giò, stay because the conversation actually went somewhere.

Lai Rai is one of the top first date spots in Lower East Side. At a moderate price point, it fits well when you want a first date feel without guesswork.

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