First Date·West Village·$$ · Moderate·⭐ 8.0

The Mary Lane

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West Village charm without the West Village attitude

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What DatingDex says

The Mary Lane threads the needle between neighborhood bar and actual restaurant — the kind of place where you can order a second drink without feeling like you're overstaying a coffee, or linger over food without the check being dropped on you passive-aggressively. Bank Street's relative quiet means you arrive already feeling like you found something worth finding.

The Mary Lane is one of the top first date spots in West Village. At a moderate price point, it fits well when you want a first date feel without guesswork.

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