Quiet & Intimate·West Village·$$ · Moderate·⭐ 8.3

The Up & Up

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A basement bar that somehow makes you feel like the most interesting person in the room.

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What DatingDex says

Down a flight of stairs on MacDougal, The Up & Up is the kind of dimly lit, low-ceilinged cocktail den where the drinks are serious and the conversation gets good fast. The menu leans creative without being pretentious — order something with mezcal and let the night figure itself out.

The Up & Up is one of the top quiet & intimate spots in West Village. At a moderate price point, it fits well when you want a quiet & intimate feel without guesswork.

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