The York
Avenue B's best-kept secret that won't stay secret for long
What DatingDex says
A high-rated neighborhood bar on the quieter end of Avenue B where the lack of pretension does a lot of heavy lifting — you're here to actually talk, not to be seen. Drinks are honest, the crowd isn't trying too hard, and neither should you.
The York is one of the top low pressure first date spots in East Village. At a moderate price point, it fits well when you want a low pressure first date feel without guesswork.
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