First Date·Rittenhouse Square·$$ · Moderate·⭐ 8.4

Wilder

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Rittenhouse's most effortlessly cool dinner date that doesn't try too hard.

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What DatingDex says

Wilder hits the sweet spot between thoughtful and unpretentious — the kind of place where the menu does the talking and you don't feel like you're performing. Sansom Street keeps it neighborhood-intimate without the hustle of Walnut, which means you can actually hear each other.

Wilder is one of the top first date spots in Rittenhouse Square. At a moderate price point, it fits well when you want a first date feel without guesswork.

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